Hey guys, thanks for replying..especially to HTC's own Pyro.
Since this thread has wandered a little, let me restate my initial suggestion:
a)  As aforementioned, my connect speeds to the game servers is not always that great, so I'd like to be able to buy either a full scale, leggit copy of Aces or, through whatever means by licensing and such, be able to host my own 16/32/64 player games.
b)  The prices for Aces High seem too high to me.  But, I am not ranting on about that.  I've run a subscription BBS system for years.  If the price is too low, the riff-raff come in and squeak & moan.  If its too high, it scares way too many potential subscribers away.  So, maybe if you guys could bring the price down somewhere in the middle?  At its current $30 price tag, its more than I pay for Internet Access per month, and frankly, I do not feel I'd get $30 of usage out of it.  I play a few times a week, and then there are times I go a month without playing.
c) Easymo's ranting about me is pathetic.  In the game he refers to, it was a FFA (Free For All) game.  I was killed on the runway 3 times and thought it was hilarious....I mean, come on, seeing a 500 pound bomb come through the windshield is pretty impressive!  I hosted a great game last night that filled up fast, Chunder, Carrie, Abunabi and several others were in there having a great time.  So, Easymo, as far as being a host goes, you are the only one whinning.  So unless you care to apologizing for boo-hooing about nothing, Ill just keep on banning you with glee.
And as this thread began, these are just suggestions.  I really enjoy the game and just wish I could host bigger games that allow for more than 8 players.
Thanks all.
Paul Bussiere