That got me thinking about something that I'm noticing in my job.
Being Mr. Nice Guy is easier for an owner/manager than for an employee. Leaving aside the obvious, that an owner cares more than an employee for the bussiness, I have found a big new factor.
I work at the Computer Services of a fairly big University. I'm mostly a systems administrator / application developer, but everyone here gets to do a fair amount of user support, as the user/support staff ratio is like 800 users for every one of us.
Just the simple facts of picking up the phone every time it rings, answering using a friendly voice tone, and trying to solve the problems of whomever is calling, is getting me nice emails from users and management very similar to that letter , but is also getting me quite a bad rep among many of my co-workers: I'm too "soft" on users, and make them look bad.
I even had one of the senior workers here come complaining about this:
A friend of him had requested some task, and he answered with the usual hogwash about it being nearly impossible to perform in less than 3 or 4 months. Someone told the guy about me, he called and I did the stupid thing in like 10 minutes. The next day I had the other bastard howling at the doorway of my cubicle. Pretty sad.
Other guy was so friggin' lazy that I was in fact doing all of his work for him, just out of pity for the poor users. When he was about to be caught, he complained to the bosses that I was "hijacking his work asignments". That was great, because they called me, I went into the meeting, smiled, hinted very lightly about resigning, and got a nice promotion.
The only thing that scares me is getting burned out and becoming one of them.