Dunno Pfunk, mysogyny runs deep in our cultures, and strippers are easy targets for guys with problems.
And as far as "middle aged nerds" go, well first as someone who's still in high school, you have no idea.
Though it does remind me of the story of a housemate of mine some time back, a US embassy intern. Not a bad looking guy, but such a dislikable personality he was stood up on a date with a bulgarian sex-slave prostitute. Or so my informant, an Iraqi refugee, told me. All I can confirm is that he inexplicably rented a car and a hotel room on the beach, and at the last minute stayed home instead, without offering an explanation.
but I digress.
