There is no ez mode in AH. Auto trim comes nowhere close to an ez mode IMO. It does not make an aircraft easier to control at stall speed, it does not lower stall speed.
Auto takeoff while it maybe "cheating" all it does is get you off the ground easier while u go grab another pint. And it can kill you when trying to takeoff from a carrier while heavy. Auto takeoff does nothing for or against you once in flight.
If you have a good Hotas setup with multiple Hats perhaps you can use manual trim, my hands are too busy while in combat to dance on the keyboard trying to trim. When I finally get my control system assembled, i should be able to manual trim tho +)
SKurj