Originally posted by banana
What kind of merciful God would have this as his plan for a little girl?
OK, context is everything, so lets put this in context. I'll use myself as an example:
I have a son, David, who I love dearly as my own life. Let's say, the day comes and David gets his drivers license. So, I give him all the good safety tips and prepare him as best I can. However, ultimately, David will be on the road by himself at some point. Do I stop loving him while he is by himself on the road, no, but still, because I love him, have to let him excerise a certain amount of freedom. He, nor the rest of us, are puppets.
One day, David is driving down the interstate and he sees a set of headlights streaming toward him. Before he can react, some drunk in a car going 80 MPH smashes into my son headon and David is gone.
Now, did I not love him? Was he out of my thoughts for one moment? Of course not.
Just a reminder, this is hypothetical...my son is alive and well.
The fact is, bad things happen to good people. From a Christian perspective, the world is a fallen place and man is depraved by nature. Holding God accountable for the evil that men do would be the same as holding me accountable for the death of my son in the hypthetical scenario I gave above. No, I didn't put the drunk on the road, but I did put my son out there. A case could be made that I allowed the event to happen.
God gives us all free will and free action. If He did not allow all people the freedom, He would not be a just or loving God...He would be a tyrant. He did not intend for Carlee to be murdered. She was murdered because humanity is depraved by its nature and while capable of great acts of good also capable of great acts of evil.
For God to not allow anything bad to ever happen to anyone, he would have to be a puppet master. So, you have to ask: is a puppet master merciful or just a string puller.
Probably didn't help any, but I had to say something.
By the way: I was an agnostic for a great deal of my life. I know where you're comming from, banana.