Yea true.
Every outfit is different
The local one has had its "administrations" of wannabes. You know, the type that never served in the military but give them a uniform and behold...the long lost Napoleon!
The cadet program is fun, if the right folks are running it. When I went thru, I was like 14 and the guy who was involved was a retired fighter pilot and man, he told some great stories and taught us a lot. It was a lot of fun...granted this is early 80s stuff...so wearing camoflague and LIKING the military was all pretty en vogue.
The Senoir program, which I havent been a part of for a while, is a mixed bag. We seem to have half the group that's my age (34) or so, eager to fly, build up the hours, learn the search grids and practice. The other half, the old fuddy duddies, wanna sit around and talk about the old days and acheive nothing.
The C-172 we had was new and had a impressive radio stack. Tacky paint job...but a really nicely maintained bird.
So...check it out. If they sounds like a para military, gung-ho group...it could be fun. Every Squadron is different. I've seen some really sad looking guys in uniform...and I've also seen some ordinary folks really enjoy and have fun with it.