Sorry to hear that Stream. I know where the burnout comes from, I got it in AW and quit, planning to come back in a month and it ended up being 7 years. Now I never get upset like I did then (well, not with another player, I get HOT at myself, but thats a different story).
Only once have I said anything harsh to another player and that was a misunderstanding. It was in the last BoB, and JG3 was bombing the Allied HQ. I said on Ch 1 "I dont like those desk flying tards in HQ anyway" meaning a slap at the "Generals" back at HQ, you know, soldiers of any army complain about the "guys in the rear". This fellow apparently didnt read the whole thing, or misunderstood it to read that I was calling the Axis tards for bombing HQ. I could not get him to understand that I was not talking about the Axis pilots, but rather my own "virtual" Generals back at HQ. I got a little hot and called him an IDIOT. The only reason I got mad was I just could not get him to understand he was not who I was talking about, which is rather ironic.
Other than that rare instance, I dont let anything anybody else does or says bother me, they all pay their $14.95 and can do what they want as car as I am concerned. I only wish the great guys on both sides I know from switching sides so often would not get so petty and childish sometimes. I get along with everybody (at least as far as I know anyway, maybe everybody secretly hates my guts but wont tell me) and I dont understand it sometimes when two guys I know and like start flaming each other over something silly.