Well, it's a free download, and I got it at 120 K per second, so if that's dial-up speed for you, I'm awful jealous.
If you're using Bit Torrent for one download, you can choose whether or not to donate to the author, I'm sure he'd understand. Plus, there are bit torrent clients out there that are totally free w/ no donation requests.
Please understand that I mean no offense, but you sound kinda like a martyr. It might be my imagination, and if so, I apologize, but that's my perception based on your posts.
I'll take the 140 meg download any day if it means I get a flight sim that's updated so proactively with exciting new features and technologies. With Microsoft, you're lucky if you get a plane and a bug fix in an update, while the author of X-Plane might introduce whole new features that change the whole sim for the better.