Ahhh, but you see, we CANT do most of those things. We CAN now get the fuel consumption of actual aircraft. Previously cruise, rpm, mil, wep were not modeled. Wep used as much as mil and all was odd on linear after that. Now that the fuel consumption is modeled correctly WE CAN HAVE THIS SMALL PART more realistic.
As for your complaints, I would say that most flaps autoretracted (either by sheer force of the wind or a mechanism), Lone bombers are not realistic, and like I said, the rest is stuff we cannot do yet.