You right about the language there is no excuse for it. But if you are going to shelter your kid, never let him go to school, ride the bus or go out in the world then you have a chance. It is ok for children to know the words, what is more important is for them to be taught it is wrong to use them. I'm not for sheltering children from the every day things that are wrong, expose them to everything and teach them right from wrong. This world is not friendly to a sheltered child.
As for the check sixes, anyone that gets all mouthy about not getting a check six is a newbe and has no clue, if he is not a newb then he is just a dumbprettythang. People that don't give check sixes just means their SA sucks too and they have a hard enough time watching their own six let alone anyone else’s. I'm not saying this about you personally Mayhem, just in general.
You should have posted the call sign as well. People think they can hide on these games, but if the community makes issues like these public then maybe people will realize we are all watching and might think twice.