Everyone complains about head ons, and every time that happens, someone points out that in real life a head-on was avoided because it was too dangerous (hey, a 20mm cannon shell in my chest don't look good!).
The reasons why HO is done here is simple:
1)Its easy to get a kill with, the plane with bigger guns/ROF/Aim wins. HO a B-26 in a HogC? NO PROBLEM! Bring it on!
2)You're behind a screen, not a cockpit. I bet if you were in a cockpit you sure as hell wouldn't get on a collision course with another plane, closure rate of 800 MPH AND whizzing bullets to throw in the kettle. I DIED! Weee! Lets try it again! (I bet WW2 pilots wouldve LOVED to be able to do this!).
Its easy and there is no "real danger" to the player (yeah, make em lose a .exe file at random on their system every time they die... that would kick in their self-preservation instincts *wicked grin*), thus there is no motivation to NOT die (some players dont care if they kamikaze against an ack, or run out of gas over enemy territory, etc..they happily respawn).
How to give a player a motivation to not "die"??
I repost an idea from a previous thread in which my humble pocket got whacked

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Make RANKS for players. If I am able to win RANK by getting kills and NOT dying, then I would not only get a nice rank insignia (and perhaps some rank priviledges..like painting your plane or something!), but I also get a REASON to stay alive. If I get killed...well, there goes the rank and I start again as a miserable latrine aviator (personifying the "replacement pilot" that took the place of the glorious dead Captain that got shot down over F12).
I previously suggested that certain planes be open to certain ranks..some people did not like the idea *shrug*.. I think its cool and somewhat logical.. the Luftwaffles wouldn't give an ME-262 to any green pilot, nor would the Brits give the Gloster Meteor to a yank with 12 hours flight time logged.
The point here is to GIVE the player a REASON to stay alive. Got any other suggestions on how to do this? Post em here!
And before someone says "Then low ranks will always HO" I say: If they HO, they never get rank or good stuff.. and it takes 2 to HO. If the Colonel HO's, then he's a stupid Colonel and deserves a humiliating death. Low on E, can't avoid a HO Mr Colonel? Gee, too bad, that's your fault, the plane didn't "decide" to lose the E on its own.. besides, you CAN live if you bail out, no need to stay with the sinking ship eh?
Chute shooters? Aaaww... too bad, it happened in RL too, dont open chute till the last moment then

'nuff rambling.. NEXT!