Tern-
I've sat on your response to me- wanted to think about it.
While this thread started with you apologizing for (yet another) "bad night", others have calmly tried to help. A couple went a bit further, and now this thread has degenerated to mudslinging.
My comment to you is not intended to throw mud per se, but to point out an obvious truth. It was not condescending (not intended to be anyway).
To be perfectly blunt, you are abusive to people at times. This is no secret. I would merely point out the fact that some people take longer to get over it than others. I'm not asking that we should all hold hands and sing "Koom-bah-yah", but you can't expect that people aren't going to comment when you make such a post.
Intended with all due respect, no sarcasm, no smilies.