This whole debate is pointless. Two people that know they are going to die are arguing over who gets the kill.
Were this the point, I'd agree with you that it is a non-issue. But it ain't. The fact is, like it or no, some folks do collect kills, and the current scoring system encourages suicidal behavior, such as HOs, staying in your cockpit, and the like.
Here's the point: The current system is both inaccurate and encourages undesirable behavior.
Arguing "well you should be avoiding HOs anyway" is as patronizing as it is idiotic.
Take the argument that jury awards in civil suits were so out of hand that people were deliberately doing stupid things just so they could sue somebody, and therefore our tort law should be revisited. In this case, the analogous response to yours above is "Well, you shouldn't be starting frivolous lawsuits, now should you?"
If something's broken, we'd like to see it fixed, particularly if it has an effect on gameplay.
In short, it ain't a slam on HTC. We have confidence that they will fix known problems.
It ain't bickering by folks who are gonna die. Frankly, I don't care about dying. Sometimes I play the "Strat game", which involves all sorts of dweebish behavior; sometimes I play to have great sorties, thrilling dogfights and the like. I don't give a damn about K/D, and I eat for lunch the idiots who go for the HO when they have plenty of options.
Only an idiot would believe this was a defense of the HO, or a whine by folks who take the HO all the time and feel robbed of kills.
But perhaps there'd be a lot less idiots out there if the scoring were more appropriate.
How about if
nobody gets a kill on a mutual-death HO?
(and vlkn. After you remove that iron leg from your behind, we invite you to repeat your question

)