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Offline Panzzer

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« Reply #30 on: December 09, 2004, 07:22:43 PM »
Best of wishes, wipass!

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Offline aztec

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« Reply #31 on: December 09, 2004, 08:48:00 PM »
All the best to you and yours wipass, !

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« Reply #32 on: December 10, 2004, 03:19:12 AM »
Many thanks for your kind words of support and encouragement.

It is much appreciated, hope to join you all again when things settle down here and we are confident that Berties needs are being taken care off properly.



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Offline AWMac

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« Reply #33 on: December 10, 2004, 12:06:09 PM »
Gonna miss ya wipass, but very proud of ya makin the right choice.

Best of luck to you, your Son and the Family.  <<>>

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« Reply #34 on: December 10, 2004, 01:04:28 PM »
wipass,

When I was 8, so very long ago I was found to be dyslexic. That accounted for my problems with math. Back then there was not much you could do to help a child. My mother wouldn't accept that answer. Instead she worked with me on my math asking a simple question. What do you see on the paper? Once she had an idea of what my mind was telling me, she proceded to teach me to see what was actually there. For about a year she helped me do my home work by asking me to read it to her. Eventually I started recognising what I was seeing and adjusted for it. It's like learning a new language in the most sever cases.

Most boys/young men go through some form of dyslexia as part of their physical development cycle. With help they grow past it and move on. Bad grades or in class social problems for a boy can indicate covering up while going through it.

He will make it. I did, now 40 years later I'm a IT Engineer for a multinational corporation.

wipass you are a great Father.   :aok
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« Reply #35 on: December 10, 2004, 01:36:14 PM »
It's good to see that someone here has his priorities straight.  :aok   Take care, wip.  And, best of luck to your son.  He will overcome.  So many before him already have.

Offline TexMurphy

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« Reply #36 on: December 11, 2004, 08:25:17 AM »
Im dyslexic my self... it has been a pain through my school years as the way education is conducted its mostly based on reading information for knowladge, especially at college...

But even though my grades where never really good I never blamed dyslexia.

I think that will be your most important task as a parent of a dyslectic child... to teach him to accept it but teach him to never use it as an excuse.

If you can, through out his school years, motivate him to try harder then everyone else then when he becomes an adult he will be a constant overachiver. Because the effects of dyslexia fade away with the years, usually around 20 its almost gone (though he will never be a fast reader or a spelling wiz), but what will be left that day will be his attitude to always try harder then everyone else.

When lookin at the people that I went to school and college with over 50% of the most successfull ones in their careers are dyslectics. Simply due to us beeing the ones who always try a bit harder and never quit when facing a problem.

Also when teaching him to accept his dyslexia its important for him to know that alot of very famous and intelligent people where dyslectic. Einstein for example.

He has to know he aint stoopid because of the dyslexia and on the contrary he has to belive that he is likely more intelligent then his fellow classmate, based on how many very intelligent dyslectic people there have been through history.

If you manage to teach him that and motivate him to try harder then the rest then your young lad will be very successfull in life.

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« Reply #37 on: December 11, 2004, 08:31:44 AM »
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Originally posted by wipass
Four weeks ago my young lad was diagnosed as being dyslexic, it wasn't such a huge shock as we had suspected for a while that such a bright young man shouldn't have trouble reading, writing and spelling.


Dyslexia really doesn't have any relationship with intelligence, but I'm sure you know that already. Good luck to you and your son.
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