dtango
I appreciate your frustration! This is not an easy subject...primarily because of the many variables at play.
To answer your question regarding using a rolling maneuver as a defensive move...this can be done in several ways. The objective is one or both of the following...deny the attacker a gun tracking solution, and/or force a longitudinal overshoot.
In order for the attacker to track you with his gunsight, he has to get into and stay in your plane of motion for the duration of his burst of fire. If you are rolling under moderate or greater G, this becomes very difficult since your rolling flight path is very hard to match in the level of detail needed to keep the gunsight pipper on target. For the time that you are in the roll, you are pretty much immune to a tracking shot.
The other objective is the longitudinal overshoot...a situation where the attacker loses control of his closure and literally blows by you...sorta like the Tom Cruise maneuver in TOPGUN (except it isn't flown that way!). The rolling defense does this one of two ways. First, the attacker focuses on following you in the roll and fails to note that his closure is increasing. The other and more difficult technique is to generate a gross flight path mismatch in the roll and thereby cause the attacker to fly past. Maneuvers of this type are known as High G Roll Over The Top and High G Roll Underneath.
In our simulations, these maneuvers are made difficult by two things. One, the sim FM may not model the flight control response needed to fly the maneuver (for example, the rolls over the top/underneath are essentially high G rudder rolls...if the sim does not model the rudder properly, then you will not be able to perform them). The second reason is that the sim views often do not permit the pilot to maintain a tally during the maneuver. Maintaining a tally under these conditions in real life is a challenge...in a sim, it's even harder. A well flown defensive maneuver isn't worth a hoot if the bandit can maneuver back into position in the time it takes for the defender to regain the tally.
Think it over and come back with any questions you might have.
Andy