Hi Old Crow,
>My brother read that " the wings of the mustang would fail when subjected to high g-loads, something the P-47 would never do."
Well, the P-47 benefitted from ineffective elevator control at high speeds in dive (high Mach numbers, to be more accurate), which is "inherently safe" as it doesn't allow the pilot to pull enough G to break the aircraft.
The P-51 was not that safe due to an effective elevator, but it really tough anyway, and many aircraft didn't break up but became terminally bent and had to be written off after landing.
Other aircraft, well, hard to compare! The P-38, F4F and Me 109 had ineffective elevators. The Fw 190 had effective elevators, but a very strong wing. The Zero was sturdily built, with a single-piece central wing not unlike the Fw 190 (though not as tough, of course) and had ineffective elevators. I've read about the Ki-43 pulling its wings off now and then, but don't know technical details.
The Spitfire had very light elevator control and accordingly was in danger or wrecking itself at high speeds. The same was probably true for the Beaufighter. The Me 110 seems to have had a very low G limit, at least in the heavily loaded night fighter variants.
Now that's not a scientific treatment of the topic, but I've mostly limited myself to technical aspects and what you find in aircraft manuals, though I'm sure that there is anecdotal evidence too - for example, that's all I could find on the Ki-43. As always, anecdotal evidence might not be accurate, but it's interesting nevertheless :-)
I hope you find this useful!
Regards,
Henning (HoHun)