Wow!
What a change in perspective! Two (or was it three?) years ago Tilt would have won this argument. In fact, Shane, a bunch of others, and maybe even Steve would have been with him. From my personal experience, it takes two planes to engage in air combat. However it only takes one of the two planes to engage in a HO attack. The "it takes two" statement is like saying all sex is consensual.
That is not to say that both planes are not participating, but one plane is actively pursuing a HO shot. Personally, I think AH2 (HiTech, et al) should lower the likely hood of a frontal shot hitting. But, that aside, there are ways to avoid the HO. I have talked about them before and they work for me. I have engaged in HO attacks, but it's always a last resort and usually suicidal for both planes.
Regards,
Malta