Creamo, since nobody currently employed spoke up yet, as you requested, let me offer this:
I'm retired from this field, now working the last coupla-three years doing unrelated stuff. However, at the time I decided to close for business the general repair shop that provided my living for 19+ years (after having for the 8 prior years worked for OEM dealers as a service manager and some time before that as a technician) I held an ASE Master Auto Technician's certification, which is still actually current through 2007 (I'd just done my periodic re-certifcation when I shut down). Those are my quals, perhaps that'll do for you.
Its impossible for me to offer a certain diagnosis without an inspection. There's simply too many things that need to be looked at by an experienced eye. That said, IMO the advice you're receiving thus far is solid, the probability of a head gasket failure is substantial.
I'd recommend that you pay a certified technician to perform a diagnosis and make you a quote for the repair. You shouldn't have to pay for more than an hour or so of flat rate to get that, and then you'll be able to make an informed decision as to how to proceed.
One thing mentioned here (all you need is a torque wrench etc to DIY) is bad advice. Modern engines are more tricky to repair in terms of degree of precision of effort involved than used to be the case even 10 years ago, especially 20+ years ago. There's many many things I can think of that an amateur might not be equipped to do, or might not be skilled enough to do.
That said, I'll be glad to offer specifc advice in detail if you insist on delving into it yourself.
I'd recommend allowing a competent professional to perform major internal engine repair procedures if you can afford it. You're more likely to experience greater integrity of repair and be more cost effective in the long run that way. A smart DIY guy will stick to routine stuff he's equipped and competent to do. Your question tends to indicate you ain't a qualified current engine repair guy

culero (even if you've done it on a Chevy V8 before)