Bloom, I know what you are saying, but if the native data width of any given operation goes from 32 bits to 64 bits, then the effective performance of a serial bus is cut in half as the operation cannot commence until the op is transferred. The number of ops does not necessarily change either. They just get bigger in many cases.
And yes, a parallel bus is wrought with issues, especially if it using passive termination. Active termination helps, and differential is definately the best and, as you pointed out, the most expensive.
The 4GB/s you spec for the PCI-e bus is dependent on the clock rate of the bus. Typical devices I have seen are running at 2.5Ghz per channel, which yeilds the figure I came up with. Some of the cheaper motherboards look to be using 2Ghz parts as well.
Seems to be a grab bag at this time.
All that aside, where the heck you been?