Guppy, yes that does answer my question.. but it does fuel more confusion as well. As it is, the summary of facts you've come up with seems to support both sides of the issue in this particular thread to an equal extent.
Perhaps, arguably, supports my view on this even more.. because despite the few examples you've kindly brought up, your answers given to my question seems to contradict your earlier view that flap practice was for the norm.
What I mean by this is, I am guessing you've brought up those pilot quotes at the previous post, to make a point that flap usage was not just limited to a few ace pilots... but it seems that if it wasn't a recommended tactic, even for the P-38, but still the pilots tended to attempt certain tactical maneuvers and device usage...
It indicates that it wasn't really about the plane itself, but about what kind of mentality towards general aircombat doctrine the P-38 pilots themselves held.. and upto a certain point, indicate somewhat 'reckless' behavior in part of the P-38 pilots. Another interesting tidbit that might be brought up in this discussion is the reports of one Harold Rau, which had been sent to his superiors in June of '44, which was posted on the boards some time ago.
It seems to show that quite contrary to the general satisfaction the PTO pilots had with their P-38s, there's a strong resentment against the P-38 in the ETO. As much as there were strong advocates for the particular plane, there seems to be equally as many objections against the plane in the USAAF during that time - on grounds of being 'not fit for the average pilot'.
Clearly, flap use for combat was not advocated nor recommended amongst the pilots of all the airforces, especially when the immediate attention was drawn upon how one may simplify the combat process so that the experience level required for someone to become an effective combat wasn't too high.
The tendency, SOME P-38 pilots, and ace pilots as well, had regarding this issue, goes against the basics of evolution of aircombat. And while no doubt for some of them it proved to be a success, it still wasn't something the average pilot would be willing to do.
In the end, while I'd accept that more than just aces were willing to take such action, it still doesn't seem to justify the claims that using flaps for aggressive combat purposes were a normal thing to happen, even amongst P-38s.