SuperDud, since yer an ACM and wouldn't be here if yah didn't understand trim, balance, stall and the other mundane mechnaics of flight... you can probably teach yourself how to fly in a park with a little electric foamy or park flyer.
Once you master the trick of standing on the ground flying a little 20oz electric plane that ain't attached to your bellybutton (control reversal, wind, unusual attitude recovery, etc) you could probably move into a 'club' enviornment for advanced training with larger conventional ARF Trainers and Sport aircraft very easily. For the most part, unless yer lucky enuff to live where all the land you see is open praire, flying larger sophisticted R/C aircraft is a 'club' endeavor anyway due to insurance and community saftey issues.
As others above have said.. "Join a club!" Believe it or not, learning to fly is only about 30% of the experience.. learning all about electrics and then glow and then gas engines, highly developed and refined radio systems as well as getting a taste of all the different modeling disciplines like pattern, 3D, scale, sailplanes, Heli's, pylon racing, combat, jets & Turbines generally makes up the the other 70% of your introduction to R/C... and the best place to get the exposure and learn from others is in a club and going to the flying events hosted by clubs for other modelers.
It's a great hobby.. some aspects have developed into a sport; hugely entertaining to watch as well as fly.
Best of luck, and 'keep the dirty side down'!