As you may or may not know, I do CAS competitions. I'm also a SASS member, and participate on their forum. A gentleman there last week told us a story that matched the one you told us about being born in Africa and the person you had a problem with. He described the person in the story as "the son of a friend of mine."
We got to talking, and I mentioned you telling that story, and he asked your name, and if you lived in California. He gave names to check, that would be you and your father. If your father's name is Glenn, this fella would like me to pass his email along to you and say hello. I wont put any more of the info he gave me on the board, because I'm not sure just how anonymous you want to be here.

You are welcome to email me from my profile, or I can send you the info in a PM here on the BBS. Thanks for stoppin by.
SA2