In the past year, I have taken probably at least 40 airline rides, including about 12 or more international trips. Flown to China with Air China, Malaysia with Air Malaysia, and a bunch of other airlines.
If you wanted to die in an airline crash, it would be impossible to do. Its just too safe. I work for an airline, have worked for one for 16 years. Worked in Tech Ops, worked in Flight Ops. I have audited many other airlines. It is unbelievable safe, so much goes on you never see to make sure of it, you would be amazed.
I get on planes now, dont even think about any bad stuff, cause I know its not gonna happen. I just enjoy the view. I have flown over the pyramids in Egypt, flown over Iceland as the sun rose, flown over the Alps at sunset. There has never been a crash where a commercial airline pilot just blew a landing by himself.
To quote as close as I can remember what Helen Keller said:
"Life is a great adventure, or it is nothing at all"
Who would want to miss all the great adventures in life because of irrational fear? Conquer the fear, challenge yourself, make your time and your life count. Better to die with great memories than live a life of regrets.
This last year among other things, I have walked the streets and back alleys of Bejing, and rode in a glider in the Alps peforming aerobatics, toured the Red Light district of Amsterdam, visited the Petronas towers in Kuala Lumpur. If I let a fear of flying stop me I would have missed all these things.
Go fly, live and enjoy yourself.
Dago