AHGOD69
Rgr that about the ACS - my Golf has a similar device. They call it ESP. It dampens the drive in such a way as to reduce (but not eliminate) wheel spin. Turn it off, and there will be much more wheel spin with a "clutch dump" start. I just tried it out today, before coming back to this thread - just doing it once made me wince at the thought of what it was doing to the tyres.
The answer to your tyre wear conundrum is in three parts.
- Sports tyres - as ROC put it, they are designed to "melt and grip" = short life.
- "a suspension control system that reduces engine output, until the vehicle can move or acceleration can take place, without the wheels spinning." - your car has this system, but you disable it every time you drive, even though you know that "Turn it off and you know have instant tire degradation"
- "My style of driving is hard and fast." I underlined the keyword. This surely is another contributory factor to the short life of your tyres.
I'm amazed that you're using tyres with 40/45 profile for normal road use. I would never go below 50 because if you hit a pot hole, you're going to knacker the wheel rim. Bet that's happened to you a few times.

I've never been to MI, but I saw how bad the roads were in IL due to extreme winter temperatures.
So a change is in order. Any comments would be helpful, well usefull comments.
Sure, but you're not going to like it. If you want to see longer tyre life, you're going to have to change your driving style!

In which case you might not need a tyre with so soft a compound as you have now. Either that, or you'll have to feed your family on grits in weeks when you buy new tyres. Jackal1 has an excellent grit recipe!
As threads go, this one is in the "gas price whine" category.
"Waaaah - I have a problem. Oh wait, I'm causing it myself" But I think AHG69 has a little more class than those who drive 10mpg gas guzzlers and then whine that gas is costing them $4/gallon.