Then why do you keep babbling about defeat?
First: about the "mislead" question, I don't think we were mislead intentionally but like many I do believe the intelligence was flawed. That does not spell defeat, a word you just seem to love to use as it casts a negative light on the administration and the efforts of our military.
Second: I do not have a clue if Iraq will be able to maintain a democracy in the future, religious sect differances and the clan nature of the Arab society pose significant issues just as it does in Afghanistan.
But, it has worked in other Arab countries and is possible in Iraq. Regardless, we have not been defeated, and your attempting to use that word in the wrong context makes you look foolish.
dago