I'm not even going to touch the flame-a-thon that I kinda want to write... So I'll be really nice and just say this...
In 10 years of online gaming I have learned one absolute fact..
When you place YOUR fun in the hands of someone else (especially an armchair general) it stops being fun.
Game your own game, find a squad that operates the way you like to game and that is all the organization there should ever be.
Besides, we have Friday Night Squad ops once a week to remind you why you hate being commanded by some incompetent boob you've never met..

Seriously though, if you're in a squad, try out Friday Squad Ops... Its a lot of fun and it is a situation where there is a command and control in effect. I would never want that in the Main arena though.