Ho's are part of the game just as they were in real life. I have been HO'd by some of the so called best sticks in the game (of course I was enlightened that I HO'd them not the other way around). I find with time and experience the better I get at avoiding them, but there is still some you just can't avoid. Or you'll end up with a pilot wound or the butt of your plane falling off.
Sometimes it's just principle if some guy keeps upping p-series & f-series planes that only hold mg's and HO'n all the way through I have no problem abliging him in my 110 or hurricane, la7, etc. If you're dumb enough to bring MG to a Cannon fight deal with the conciquences.
ICU2- The guys flying for rank & prestige are the main complainers, In a way they are valid complaints. If you put in the time to aquire the skill to be a top stick in the game. You will find that there is only a handfull of players you will come up against that you can't whoop, but when greated with an HO skill goes out the window. It throws a huge chaos factor into the game, so the guys who have learned what needs to be done to get a 5 kill sortie and land it. Do not like being taken down by some joe shmoe throwing out hail-mary shots. There is no right and wrong, so don't let the highschool drama queens hold you back if you wanna HO do it to your little hearts content. But I'm sure that the longer you play you will lose interest because it's virtually impossible to control the outcome. If you want to be a truly good stick, you can't have luck be part of your game. Besides you will find that turning an encounter around and getting a kill on someones six that opened with a forced HO is 5 times more gratifying than a HO/Collision kill.
JMFJ