There's another thing, those quiet cars produce max power very infrequently. Once you're cruising at highway speeds, you might not need more than 10-20 horsepower to maintain your speed. An airplane engine is putting out 75%+ power most of the time. Even a Cadillac is loud when you're drag racing it and revving the motor, ya know.
In my plane, I'm going to use a rotary engine (which is often louder than a piston engine) but it'll also have a turbo, which will soak up most of the noise. My muffler needs will be minimal after that, but the plane will still make plenty of noise because of the prop.