coupla basics:
1) See them, first if possible, but see them comin if nothin else!
2) Have airspeed to play with, or some altitude above them.
3) Shoot them in the back, because most dont have guns there.
..and ..
4) Try an fly *with* someone ..solo is tuff to pull off.
5) film everything ..watch them and figure out what they did to shoot you down.
For some light reading I would recommend Bob's book.
Fighter Combat, Tactics and Manuevering (or somethin like that)
.. by Robert Shaw.
-GE