I also have to pitch in...no slight meant to Seagoon (welcome back, BTW), but I, too, will disagree with the statement that living together inevitably erodes a relationship.
Like J_A_B, I also lived with my girl for a couple of years prior to our marriage...which was 17 years ago. We're the only intact couple left out of every single couple we knew back when...including the 'not until I'm married' folks.
I'm not saying that my way is always right, nor that another view is wrong...only that what works for you is probably not the same as what works for another.
Personally, I would never contemplate making a life-long vow of unfailing committment to someone I didn't know as well as I possibly could.
As for your computer...I'd split the difference; clean it up for now, decide what of that stuff is important in some way to you, and what you can forget about, cause it's just goofing around. Anything important you'll need to talk with her about. If you guys have a serious difference of opinion, it'll getcha in the end. Better to hash it out early...I was amazed at some of the feelings my wife had about certain subjects that still blow my doors off to this day (all good, mind you).
Sorry, you can charge me with aiding and abetting a hijack...
Oh..and, I'll take $50 on 'M' for MILF...
