Go to the EW arena. When you are faced with a HO situation, they don't shoot at you (as you don't shoot at them) and they don't ram into you (as you don't ram into them). What you do in HO situation, is both of you turn away (in a gentlemen fashion) from each other and go back to dog fighting. This is more fun, simple as that. Both Planes live to fight, may the better man win.
I ran across about 10 HO's in EW tonight. It just happens sometimes. Not a one of them shot at me, and, every one of them turned away, as i did. What is so hard to understand about this?