Originally posted by HomeBoy
That's the essence of my question. Why would you want to try to house dogs and cats in the same cage?
I think the two camps are not as different as dogs and cats, since one wont literally devour the other...errrr wait a second there...

Seriously though, I think the two camps are much closer together than your analogy would indicate. I would think that everyone here is a avaition fan to some extent, probably been reading about the exploits of WWII aviators since childhood. I am firmly in the fighter group that you call "gamers" and "furballers", but one big reason I don't fly bombers or drive GVs is becasue I suck arse in them, (I'm only a little better than that in a fighter BTW). Yet I hold no animosity to the other camp and think the arenas and the community would be worse off if there were gone, or segregated in some way.
Guess it biols down, for me, to thinking we are better off with each other than without each other. Only ones I'd like to see fewer of is the ones who wont fight at all unless they have every advantage they can get (aircraft/altitude/numbers) and wont take any risks at all, but you have not mentioned that category of player, and they are a relatively small group, so I'm okay with them hanging around too as long as they don't breed more virtual-chickens...LOL.
FWIW, I think TOD will accomplish some of what you seek, separate the groups to some extent, certainly the styles.