Saintaw-
Happens on all sides, and unpredictably. Sometimes things click, sometimes they don't.
Let me give you another perspective.
Sometimes I have a long time to spend when I log on; I might grab a buff and do a long strike (did one last night!) and help in a base capture. I might grab a C47 and park it off the enemy perimeter and wait for the call. Might even CAP a base (funny, the one thing I don't seem to enjoy is vultching).
Other nights I might have only a short time to play, or just be in the mood to blow off some steam. Finding the nearest fight might be all that I have in mind.
Some nights are good, some are bad. Sorry to hear about Mark, but I suspect it was more than a few bad nights that made him leave. Based on what I read in another thread, I'm pretty sure I'm right.
Final thought; there are times a few people on a team might be trying to capture a base, defend, whatever. Despite all their best efforts, they may fail. Inevitably some person goes off on country channel talking about how pathetic those guys are, useless, losers, the whole smear. When I hear that I get an overwhelming urge to switch sides and hunt the guy down. Not saying you or anyone in particular does this, but it does nothing but build enmity when it happens. I can tell you, the last thing I would do is to help someone like that.
As far as the Bishops being outnumbered? Don't believe it. I have never logged on and seen it. I spent the whole weekend as a Knight, and saw nothing but Bishops taking over the world. The classic "off-the-map-six-35K-B17's-on-HQ" raid comes to mind... at that time there were something like 45 Bish, 39 Rook, 20 Knight. Guess who was getting beaten up?