If the Democrats are using the excuse that too many of our soldiers are dying then I say that gives the soldiers the right to decide, otherwise I have to agree with you. The military should never rule but when the civilian government give the military an objective the civilian government should not interfere with the military until the job is done, even Sun Tzu knew that 4000 years ago. The military should be allowed to use all of its weapons, even its NUKEs and use of torture. If there is no reason they should be able to use everything, then there was no need to call upon them in the first place. This limited warfare stuff is BS.
P.S. I believe in the theory of "Walk softly but carry a big stick". The way our civilian rulers have been using our military we look like nothing but a big bully to the rest of the world. They should FEAR us, not resent us.