yeah this is my first build..
Thing is, on the power supply the main motherboard 24- pin, and the 4-pin were wrapped up in there own seperate loom. I figured they did that so you wouldn't accidently plug in the wrong ones. Guess not. The 4-pin that i was supposed to use was with all the other connectors.
I probably could get someone to build it for me, but i'd rather do it myself and even if i mess up a little along the way, i've learned something valuable for the future.
The best way to learn is to have someone show you step by step what to do, but since i don't, i've been reading web pages, and old posts from here, and asking questions.
I read about the spacers, and i even wore the funny anti-static strap throughout the build, and made sure to ground myself against the chasis and metal on the powersupply before touching any parts that were going into the box..
I'll probably wind up bringing it to the computer store by my house and see if they'll give it a look over without charging me to much.