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« Reply #15 on: May 24, 2007, 02:24:46 PM »
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If you're trying to get back at someone for cheating on you, vandalizing your own property is not exactly helping. Safe bet that Audi was “his” not “hers”.


Depends on the particular State's laws.  It can be bought during the marriage and thus becomes "joint" property.  Pre-nup agreements can modify a particular State's laws (in some cases) as well, but I don't see this as the kind of woman to sign a pre-nup in the first place.  

Those particular state laws will also effect whether the vandalizing will hurt the woman's case in a divorce or not.  In some States, it won't be a factor.  

Yet another argument for mail order brides.  If it doesn't work out, can INS and have her sent back.   Or avoid marriage in the first place.  "It it flies, floats, or f-ornicates,... it's cheaper to rent".

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« Reply #16 on: May 24, 2007, 02:33:49 PM »
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Yup, just like murder.


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« Reply #17 on: May 24, 2007, 03:03:37 PM »
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Depends on the particular State's laws.  It can be bought during the marriage and thus becomes "joint" property.
 


So what you’re saying is that it is not illegal in some US states to vandalise property that is jointly owned by two or more people as long as you are one of them? Or perhaps only if you’re female and the other owner is your husband? Over here any such behaviour is criminal.

A buddy of mine had an “enlightening” experience with our property law when he broke up with his former girlfriend. She moved out of town and left some of her belongings in my friend’s apartment. Time went on and he too was moving out of the apartment, and he tried in vain to get her to come pick her stuff up. He even tried to deliver it personally, but she was not at home and didn’t return his calls, so he went to the cops. The police refused to take responsibility for her belongings and told my friend that he was responsible for all belongings that have been left in his apartment or on his property by mistake or intent. He would actually have to reimburse any accidentally lost or damaged property, and if he simply threw it away he could be charged with theft and vandalism.

So over here that wife would have to pay for the damage done to their car, and if the husband wanted to he could press charges for vandalism. While marital problems can be emotionally difficult it is no excuse for vandalism.

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« Reply #18 on: May 24, 2007, 07:01:27 PM »
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So what you�re saying is that it is not illegal in some US states to vandalise property that is jointly owned by two or more people as long as you are one of them? Or perhaps only if you�re female and the other owner is your husband? Over here any such behaviour is criminal.
 


Yep.  And States where the act of vandalism here IS a factor, the chances are so will be the husband's act of adultery, if there is any proof of it.  Domestic MAD (Mutually Assured Destitution).  The lawyers will win in the end in any event.

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« Reply #19 on: May 24, 2007, 10:53:46 PM »
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If you're trying to get back at someone for cheating on you, vandalising your own property is not exactly helping. Safe bet that Audi was “his” not “hers”.


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« Reply #20 on: May 24, 2007, 11:30:37 PM »
Just to illustrate the "joint ownership" of property bought during a marrage I'll use an example from real life. When My 2nd wife and I divorced she sold my welder (which I bought during the marrage) including the trailer it was mounted to and all the tools in the tool boxes for $50 to her brother. It was worth $7000. All she was required to give me by the court was $25.

I still feel I did not extract $6975 worth of arse whooping on her brother.
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« Reply #21 on: May 25, 2007, 01:43:02 AM »
I think you guys are getting ... (pardon the pun) ... screwed.

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« Reply #22 on: May 25, 2007, 08:01:18 AM »
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Yep.  And States where the act of vandalism here IS a factor, the chances are so will be the husband's act of adultery, if there is any proof of it.


Adultery is a crime?

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« Reply #23 on: May 25, 2007, 08:35:34 AM »
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Adultery is a crime?


Only if the man is doing it.:noid
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« Reply #24 on: May 25, 2007, 08:41:15 AM »
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Adultery is a crime?


In some states yes.
Actualy from what Ive found is it is a crime in over 20 states (Dont have the time to look up and confirm)
It is just rarely enforced


"According to a report in the Washington Post, a man in Luray, Virginia recently pled guilty to adultery, a crime for which the maximum penalty is a $250 fine. Ironically, it wasn't his wife who complained; it was apparently his lover. (He reportedly has reconciled with his wife.)"

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« Reply #25 on: May 25, 2007, 08:43:46 AM »
Man or woman, you get caught commiting adultery in the Army they'll actually give you a less than honerable discharge. But if your non serving spouse commits it, eh... just another day.

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« Reply #26 on: May 25, 2007, 09:33:12 AM »
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In some states yes.
Actualy from what Ive found is it is a crime in over 20 states (Dont have the time to look up and confirm)
It is just rarely enforced


"According to a report in the Washington Post, a man in Luray, Virginia recently pled guilty to adultery, a crime for which the maximum penalty is a $250 fine. Ironically, it wasn't his wife who complained; it was apparently his lover. (He reportedly has reconciled with his wife.)"

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Man or woman, you get caught commiting adultery in the Army they'll actually give you a less than honerable discharge. But if your non serving spouse commits it, eh... just another day.



That’s just weird and wrong. :huh

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« Reply #27 on: May 26, 2007, 09:11:27 AM »
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« Reply #28 on: May 28, 2007, 04:31:32 AM »
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Isn't vandalism illegal in the US?


Marriage equals 50% ownership..

You cannot be arrested for destroying your own property..

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