ya I've seen the video too and I agree that it should have failed at it's weakest point
A little background here I've been in the light pole and cell tower business for the past 12 years. When I hired on with my current employer they didn't have any ties to any engineers. I have a lot of ties to engineers so bam they buy me a design program and now I design light poles. Remember that when you drive down the highway or go to a sporting event and be afraid
I'm by no means an expert in bridge design but being exposed to AASHTO in all of its variations, UBC, CBC, FBC, etc.. on a day to day basis you tend to pick a few things up.
I'm wondering if the bridge might have had a low grade harmonic vibration in it that wasn't picked up during inspections that might have led to catastrophic failure.
I'm almost certain there's a certified structural enginerd or two on this board that might have an opinion on this.
You sure you don't want to do structural engineering? Get about 30 seals and you can make bank sitting on your butt stamping the work I do