Well, the RAE report claims the ailerons of the Bf 109E about as bad as in the Spitfire I (fabric covered) at high speed. The Curtiss H75 (as well as the P-40) featured slotted ailerons (and these were generally praised by pilots even at high speeds so I don't think that slotted aileron means allways higher control forces at high speeds .
The ailerons changed to the frise type in the Bf 109F and the flaps to the plain type. Interestingly the F series prototypes (at least in the V24) featured slotted flaps outside the radiator part, these being some sort of frise/fowler hybrids (probably with rather complicated mechanism).