Stupid, stupid, stupid! Stop making incredibly stupid, incredibly wrong assumptions about me. I find jet combat a crashing bore; if you'll look back at my previous posts, you'll see that I fully agreed with you that it takes far less skill to make a missile kill (or even a gun kill with a radar pipper and rotary-barrel cannon) than with good old fashioned machine guns. I have far more respect for the heroes who made their kills in old, weak airplanes (World War Two and especially the Great War) than for the kids who today casually lob a few missiles from the safety of their air-conditioned, automated superjets at some under-armed, out-dated junkheap with a pilot trained in the second world.
But the fact is that an ace is a fighter pilot with five air kills, and all of your fancy words cannot change that definition. All aces are not created equal, of course, but they're still all aces. Have greater respect for the old ones; they earned greater respect. But don't try to say that the kids who've made five kills in easy-fly fighter jets are not aces because their airplanes did most of the work. They're still aces.
Lastly, I will address your concerns about missiles. The newer generation of missiles are very nearly no-miss. They are, unlike previous generations, capable of hard, tight turns. They are faster, can pull more gees, and can climb and accelerate much better than aircraft. They're also much less prone to being spoofed. You think you know about missiles, but I advise you to read up on the newer ones.