I'm going to have some AWESOME inlaws!!!

[cav58d]

Originally posted by Serenity
Yeah. A lot of you guys assume ive made up my mind to marry her. My parents got divorced. I KNOW how nasty it can get. I HAVE made up my mind, just not the way you folks think. Ive decided to... well, think more about it before deciding! And thats a decision I made a while ago.

At 15 years old, you shouldnt even be thinking about that.

Listen carefully.

Your thought process should be like this (at least mine was at your age).

1-  Who do I know that drives?
2-  Where can I get beer, or who do I know that can get my beer?
3-  Who can I try and mess around with?
4-  How much I hate freshmen year of high school
5-  As a sophmore, can I possibly get playing time on Varsity
6-  Naked Girls
7-  food

and so on and so on............

[cav58d]

Originally posted by Serenity
You appear to keep missing the part where I say "IM NOT ENGAGED". I put ONE word in to see what kind of reactions I would get.

I know your not engaged....But you are entertaining the idea at 15...

whatever, have fun man...Send me some Hawaiin sun, i'm sick of the North East.

[Xargos]

In order to have in-laws you'll need to be Married, hence the title of the thread.

[Serenity]

Originally posted by Xargos
In order to have in-laws you'll need to be Married, hence the title of the thread.

Hence my saying I was flame-baiting. Its amazing, I start a "Spitfires SUCK!" thread and its immidiately flame-baiting, but I shout "IM FLAME BAITING" and everyone doesnt believe me, lol.


And Cav, of COURSE im entertaining the idea. Theres no point in wasting time in a relationship if you cannot see any future in it. So of course its a THOUGHT. But nothing more.

[Serenity]

Originally posted by cav58d
At 15 years old, you shouldnt even be thinking about that.

Listen carefully.

Your thought process should be like this (at least mine was at your age).

1-  Who do I know that drives?
2-  Where can I get beer, or who do I know that can get my beer?
3-  Who can I try and mess around with?
4-  How much I hate freshmen year of high school
5-  As a sophmore, can I possibly get playing time on Varsity
6-  Naked Girls
7-  food

and so on and so on............

1- I know more than enough people who drive
2- I hate beer, and alcohol in general. Yes, ive had it, and I hate it.
3- Already got someone to mess around with
4- I actually liked my freshman year
5- We have ONE male varisty team, and I dont fancy football in this state
6- Ive got an on-call naked girl already
7- she comes with food too.

[cav58d]

Originally posted by Serenity
Theres no point in wasting time in a relationship if you cannot see any future in it.  

lmao



Don't even bother with college bud.  Your not gonna have fun lol

[Xargos]

Next time a pretty-pretty turns your head, you better take a look at her mother instead.

[Serenity]

Originally posted by cav58d
lmao

Why is it so funny that I take an interest in my own future. I plan what job I want to have, I plan the kind of college I want to attend... This is just as big of a decision, so why NOT at least THINK about it. I'm not running out to buy a ring, but I spend a lot of time with this person, and a lot of money too. I would like to know that i'm not wasting both.

[Chairboy]

Let me guess, nobody else can understand the depths of your feeling.  She's different...

You know all those 18 year old divorcees, bitter about life?  They felt exactly the same way you do right now.  When I was 16, I realized that 15 year old me was a handsomehunk.  When I was 17, I realized that 16 year old me was a *******.  When I was 18, I realized that 17 year old me was an idiot, etc.

It starts to slow down as you get older, but I don't think it fully stops.

[cav58d]

This is my last post in the thread...Do what you want, whatever makes you happy.  I just hope you both dont convince yourselves that this is what you HAVE to do.

And the reason I laugh is because of your age.  I've seen you on the forums for years, and I know your a bright, and very mature kid.  Prolly more so than a lot of people your age, and a lot of people older than you.  I also dont doubt that you most likely know how to treat a girl right.  You understand whats important in a relationship.  It's thats a good thing, and prolly something most people my age haven't come close to grasping....

That said...I laugh because as intelligent, friendly and mature as you appear to be, you still have no idea about this idea you are entertaining.  As mature as you are, you are still a very young boy.  I bet you do very well with adults in person, but it still provides no real understanding of the different social and emotional relationships that adults practice, compared to the social and emotional level that adolescents practice.  5 years from now when you look back on 15 years of age, it will blow your mind....10 years from that, and so on and so on...

Listen man....Have fun, just dont ever convince yourself that you have to do something, when you really haven't experienced anything "adult", nor mature relationship.

[Serenity]

Originally posted by cav58d
This is my last post in the thread...Do what you want, whatever makes you happy.  I just hope you both dont convince yourselves that this is what you HAVE to do.

And the reason I laugh is because of your age.  I've seen you on the forums for years, and I know your a bright, and very mature kid.  Prolly more so than a lot of people your age, and a lot of people older than you.  I also dont doubt that you most likely know how to treat a girl right.  You understand whats important in a relationship.  It's thats a good thing, and prolly something most people my age haven't come close to grasping....

That said...I laugh because as intelligent, friendly and mature as you appear to be, you still have no idea about this idea you are entertaining.  As mature as you are, you are still a very young boy.  I bet you do very well with adults in person, but it still provides no real understanding of the different social and emotional relationships that adults practice, compared to the social and emotional level that adolescents practice.  5 years from now when you look back on 15 years of age, it will blow your mind....10 years from that, and so on and so on...

Listen man....Have fun, just dont ever convince yourself that you have to do something, when you really haven't experienced anything "adult", nor mature relationship.

I won't. Thank you for your concern.

[Vudak]

Good grief, guys, the kid's 15! He's got a high school sweetheart, they're in looooove...  "It's gonna last forever," the world is their oyster, they talk on the phone for more time than AXER plays this game.  They're HAPPY.  Don't you grouches remember what that feels like

Why's everyone giving him such a hard time?  Don't you think he can figure things out for himself?  Or that the world will give him a lesson or two when needed, just as it did for all of us?  I doubt he'll get to choose the cards he's dealt, you know!

Sheesh.  Save the marriage counseling  he's a kid - going through some High Times.  

Enjoy it while you have it, Serenity.  However long that may be

[moot]

Serenity, enjoy whatever comes your way while it lasts, it won't happen twice.  Just take it easy and don't skip any steps.

[WilldCrd]

Originally posted by Serenity
Alright, since I got a BUNCH of requests to see a picture of her, Ill post another one, (MUCH less provacative though). This is her:

Oh yeah id hit it....in 3 years ofcourse
tell her to call me 1-800-get-some lol








































just kidding dude, she looks very pretty but, as other "old" hands have stated dont go jumping into anything permenment till ya get some life experiences under your belt

[Xargos]

16 will get you 20.