When looking for a squad it's important to fly with whoever they are for awhile before joining. If you like how they operate and can get along with their idea of how to have fun, go for it. After joining, if you see something you don't like or disagree with, don't waste your time trying to change it. Whatever the problem might be, it's not only something that occurs in the game but a lifestyle.
I found a squad out there that knows how to warp on command. Some call it cable jerking I call it disrespectful and dishonorable. Other things I've filmed with distaste are bomber and fighter bailer's but it's their 15 bucks and you'll find quite a few of them out there.
As in every part of life, young to old, you will be judged by the people you surround yourself with since they are who you inspire to be like.