Well you're post came of as more of a "I'm taking my ball and going home" type of thing. Since in real life people's lives were on the line, to even ask the question "was it fun in real life" seems pretty much a self answering question if you think about it. The point is pretty meaningless anyway, since the exact same thing could be said about furballing.
But no one is trying to convince you, of what you should find fun to do. It's your money, play as you see fit.
I just think there is an audience that would be interested in a more realistic game experience than just insta-furball. Something that is sorely lacking from AH, but which I hope will be addressed when Combat Tour comes out.