Originally posted by Hornet33
Oh I don't know about that 100% I know when I enlisted I stayed the same idiot teenager I was in High school right up until I went over seas for Desert Storm. When I got back all my old friends were still idiots and I could really see it for the first time. I grew up alot and they stayed right were they were.
The stressfull enviroment like that one will make everyone involved do a gut check. For an 18-19-20 year old kid it can be a big wakeup call.
You know, I think you may be right. After I read your post I thought back on all the boys/men I've ever known.
I'm from a total military family ~ grandpa's & great grandpa's, aunts, uncles, cousins, the whole 9. The kids I grew up with were all military brats. Then after I joined the military, other soldiers were my friends. Then married a soldier & other army wives were my friends.
I just thought everyone was supposed to be as wonderful as the people I've know my whole life.
Now after decades I've finally started meeting civilians, and thought some were real putzheads. I've been attributing that to me being a cranky old lady. Maybe there's more merit to what you're saying, Hornet, than I'm giving credit for.