All I can say after reading the first 8 paragraphs, I dont know where she went to school but we respected our teachers male and female.  I knew several female teachers that were quite willing and able to deliver swift and devestating punishment when necesary.  And this isnt just Texas schools,  I attended schools in Arizona, Oklahoma, Kansas, and Texas from 1965 until 1978 and didnt talk back, or even look sideways at a teacher.  And fights??  everybody got hauled to the priniciples office...