Your original post makes zero sense. If people just stayed over their fields waiting, which they don't, the horde would slaughter them and be vulching very quickly. Only when the fight is inbetween bases does a perpetual furball erupt.
People very rarely stay over their field waiting. It's a waste of time. They head to the enemy and fight or run. I'm assuming you do the running, crying to everyone else why they're not attacking "like they should be."