Well pug your squad mate needs to realize that SA and watching your own 6 is his job not mine, or yours or anyone elses. Check 6's and people coming in to clear you are a privilege you earn not a right. In fact nothing will get me to quit helping someone faster than listening to them whine about no one helping.
In short, if you died, you made a mistake someplace, quit blaming the other guy.
As for you, well my respect level has shot up considerably.
As bustr said, above and beyond what is called for.