What this really boils down to is a lack of respect for other people.
I have been playing for about 4 or 5 years now, and I have found you reap what you sow, if you treat others with respect and courtesy, you tend to get it back.
Why is it so difficult to respect a "duel" in the "dueling" arena?
Sounds like Dedalos has a legitimate beef, and was describing a general problem he has observed in the dueling arena.
As far as Twinboom is concerned he chose to flatter himself by assuming Dedalos was refering to a specific incident where he was involved.
All Twinboom has proven is that he is good at finding pictures/clips of babies and boys crying, and doing the cut and paste thing on the BBS.
Give a little respect and you will get it back by the bucket loads.