I guess that's why you don't see the relevence of what I mentionned earlier. HDTVs and Myspace just don't matter as far as education is concerned.
If a kid is taught to think for himself correctly (i.e. has understood logic underlies everything), he'll recognize britney spears and other crap like it as just ephemeral artifacts, just fads, just bait on someone's hook.
You say instinct like it's a separate thing from reason, but I don't see the difference. Instinct is the most basic form of thought. Thought is reason... Reason is the precursor to any sort thought. Everything a kid does can be justified by a simple "why?". That's a matter of reason.
I don't mean to go around in circles Arlo, but that's all it comes down to, anyway you go about it. Teach kids to reason and they'll take care of themselves no matter what happens.
What precedes reason? I don't think anything does. Everything follows from reason. Making sure the integrity of kids' reasoning is flawless (or as nearly so as possible) is the best possible thing a parent can do. From that, everything follows: knowing when something doesn't add up one way or another.. I'm sorry but it's always about logic, plain and simple.
Kids are just thinking machines starting on a clean slate. They are what they eat and making sure they can make good proverbial diet decisions, or failing that, correctly digest something "unhealthy" on their own can be assured by giving them as early as possible the basic building blocks that "a genuine desire to learn facts before coming to conclusions" is made of.
They wouldn't need to be mandated to inform themselves before they made decisions, they'd do it on their own because it's "right". It just makes sense.
The only difference I see between learning and education at home and at school is the affective flavor at home.