Your embellishments to support your cause are just a tad over the top.
You can't practice dodging a destroyer that comes barrelling across the bow of a CV while you are taking off because some idiot turned the carrier.
If you are on the deck and rolling for take off, and they turn the carrier, there is no way that the whole CV group will turn fast enough to put a destroyer directly in your path by the time you reach the end of the ramp. If the carrier was already turning and you spawned onto the deck and then rolled, yes, there could very well be a ship in your path ... but that is the chance that you take if you roll, at that point in a turn.
You're ten feet off the water doing 140 miles an hour and here comes the Destroyer. BAM ! It's OVER. You can play with the rudders and ailerons all you want.. you're goin swimming.
If your 10 ft off the deck at 140 mph on final ... then you truly need more experience at correct aircraft carrier landings. I would surmise at 10 ft off the deck, you are 40-50 too low (at a minimum), unless of course you are trying to land on the fantail. I agree, you can use all the aileron and rudder control at your disposal and it won't do you a lick of good ... but I would add THROTTLE and ELEVATORS into that equation to overcome the problem.