You're right, REPOMAN.
You have 2 jobs and your wife doesn't work. That definitely qualifies you to scientifically discredit everything I said about 2 working parents. I did, afterall, grow up with 2 working parents, as did most of my friends, so what on earth could I possibly know about the benefits/drawbacks of this sort of lifestyle?
And yes, it's not all about money, or forcing your woman to work. Even if you made a million a year, there would be nothing wrong with your wife pursuing her dreams, desires and ambitions in some way--even from home, as I'd mentioned earlier. Your children, if they're smart, would take this example from her, learn about thinking and earning outside the box (or office), and maybe carry this message forward to the next generation--where an innovative approach to productivity will be required if we're to compete with nations currently on the rise.
Or we can just let this country turn into North Mexico in the next 30 years.